Your Monthly Love Horoscope for May 2023

Aries

Pluto heads retrograde while paired with innovative, experimental Aquarius on May 1. It’s time to reflect on what you’ve learned these past few months and figure out ways to incorporate these lessons into improving your love life in the future.

An exciting sextile between love guru Venus in restless Gemini and spontaneity-driven Jupiter in your sign emerges on the fourth and urges you to push the boundaries. While you’re all about taking risks now, Aries, you should also be aware of the potential consequences.

The magical full moon and lunar eclipse in magnetic Scorpio on May 5 bring some very intriguing people into your orbit, but the intensity of your chemistry might scare you. If you can’t stay away from each other even though you try, there’s something undeniable that must be explored.

On the twentieth, your charismatic leader Mars pairs up with sizzling Leo and your house of fun and entertainment, bringing the heat to your love life for the next couple months. Be as glamorous and dramatic as you want to be (with a beautiful date or partner by your side or not) during this extroverted transit!

Taurus

Your careful, conservative sign is hosting an alert sun-Mercury conjunction on May 1, which starts the month off with a healthy dose of caution. If you’ve been taking romantic risks lately, this is a signal for you to slow down and make more logical decisions.

On the seventh, your lovely leader Venus leaves airy Gemini for emotional Cancer and your third house of communication, so you might find it difficult to have conversations about certain topics without getting nostalgic. Warning: You might alternate between hysterical laughter and breaking down in tears during this unsure transit.

It’s a major event when lucky Jupiter leaves fiery Aries for your sturdy sign on May 16, and having this fateful energy in your first house can bring a lot of good luck your way. A romantic issue that’s been on your mind lately suddenly doesn’t seem so urgent. Things just have a way of working out when you’re patient, Taurus.

A new moon also lands in your first house on the nineteenth, encouraging you to make some plans for the future. Plant a seed now and watch it start to grow slowly over the next six months. Finances and love are closely linked now. 

Gemini

The moment that commitment-seeking asteroid Juno enters your versatile, flexible sign on May 1, you’re ready to be a free spirit. If you’re in a committed relationship, this doesn’t mean you want to break up, but you will need your space for the near future. If someone doesn’t hold your interest now, you’re on to the next possibility.

The fourth brings a stressful square between Venus (in your restless sign) and Neptune in Pisces that reminds you of the importance of weeding all the bullsh*t out of your life. There’s literally no time to waste on people who want to manipulate you or demand too much of your time. Strive to make your love life a “good vibes only” zone, Gemini.

Jupiter, the planet of fate, pairs up with earthy Taurus and your house of intuition and the subconscious on May 16, so you have a sixth sense when it comes to love and how it’s linked to dreams, karma, finances, and your earthly possessions. When things start to get intense, you know you’re on the right path.

The sun leaves sturdy Taurus to float into your airy first house on the twenty-first, welcoming in a month of flirting, travel, and excellent conversation. Adapting to new situations comes easily to you, which benefits your love life. Ask as many questions as necessary to satisfy your limitless curiosity.

Cancer

Your lovely leader Luna is full in kindred spirit Scorpio on May 5 at the same time a mysterious lunar eclipse appears. You can try to keep your love life in the shadows now, but all will be revealed in time. If you choose to keep things hidden during this intense lunar energy, the truth might come out at an awkward moment.

On the seventh, romantic Venus enters your sensitive first house, bringing a mix of both sweetness and bitterness. Because you don’t know how you’ll be feeling from one minute to the next, it’s also impossible for a current or potential partner to predict your mood. Be as understanding as possible.

The affectionate moon is in her new phase as she lands in beauty-loving Taurus on May 19, so you’ll want to plant seeds that grow into gorgeous flowers. Keep in mind that there are things more important than looks now, Cancer. Even the most beautiful flowers can have thorns or be poisonous.

The confident sun enters curious Gemini and your twelfth house of the subconscious on the twenty-first, at which point the occult could become a valuable tool for your love life. Get out the Tarot cards, consult a psychic, or get a synastry report. Let universal intuition guide you.

Leo

Your red-hot cosmic leader sun starts the month in reliable, loyal Taurus, so relationship security shouldn’t be an issue if you’re in a long-term, committed partnership. The conjunction between the sun and mental Mercury on May 1 helps you logically solve romantic problems when and if they arise, which is helpful to both single and attached Lions.

On the third, asteroid Pallas pairs up with your enthusiastic sign and boosts your courage to maximum levels. You’re willing to do almost anything in the name of love, which can be flattering as well as dangerous. You know the difference, but you might not be able to stop yourself from giving in to certain temptations.

A sun-Uranus conjunction in Taurus on May 9 gives you the ability to think both logically and creatively, which can help you decide between two very different choices. With both sides of your brain working harmoniously together, you get the very best outcome possible.

On the twentieth, passionate Mars enters your enthusiastic, dramatic sign, so love is anything but subtle. You want to scream how you’re feeling from the rooftops, and you don’t care who’s listening. And the biggest irony is that even though you want to make these big, grand gestures, Leo, you can impress that special someone just by being yourself.

Virgo

The dependable Taurus sun conjoins your quick-thinking home planet Mercury on May 1, which helps you logically formulate your thoughts and communicate them very well. And while your delivery might come off as rather stiff, at least you’re able to get your point across so there’s no more doubt about how you feel.

On the sixth, asteroid Ceres goes direct while traveling with your health-conscious sign, which gives you some time to really tap in to how you’re feeling and take care of yourself. If you’ve been through a stressful breakup or recently started an intense new relationship, Virgo, you should definitely take some “me” time.

Fellow earth sign Taurus starts hosting expansive Jupiter on May 16, which is an excellent time to start appreciating the subtle details of a loved one or just love in general. Focus on the senses—the way a partner’s hair smells when you hug them, or the way the light intensifies the color your crush’s eyes. There’s so much beauty in the little things that most people ignore.

When the sun moves into dual-natured Gemini on the twenty-first, love can be up and down. Some people might accuse you of running a little too hot and cold (i.e., being a flake), but you’re just going with the flow of where your emotions take you. You can’t help that your feelings are honestly changing from one minute to the next!

Libra

On May 1, connection-seeking asteroid Juno pairs up with witty, flirty Gemini, opening wide the lines of communication. If you’re in a committed relationship, it should be easier to talk to your partner about important things. If you’re single, breaking the ice with a hot stranger comes naturally. Why not keep the conversation going over coffee, drinks, or dinner?

On the fifth, the full moon and lunar eclipse in secretive Scorpio make you curious about someone new, which could be extremely exciting if you’re single or a big problem if you’re not. You’re karmically drawn to certain people during this lunation, though, so trying to fight it is pointless.

A logical new moon in Taurus on May 19 has you looking toward the future and analyzing your moves for the best outcome. If you aren’t currently on the path that will lead you toward what you truly desire, it’s time to make other plans. Time moves quickly, Libra, and the future will be here before you know it.

The warm sun moves into like-minded, candid air sign Gemini and your house of adventure and expansion on the twenty-first, inviting you to do something to learn more about this crazy thing called love. Traveling can bring you closer to a current partner or one step closer to meeting your soul mate. Don’t limit yourself. Every experience is valuable during this enlightening solar transit. 

Scorpio

Right away on May 1, your transformative co-ruler Pluto enters a retrograde position while traveling with rebellious Aquarius, giving you a chance to reflect on the innovative actions you took this past month and how they’ve helped you grow. If you’ve been inhibited, figure out how to be more daring in the future.

The enticing full moon and lunar eclipse in your determined sign on the fifth light up your confident first house. They remind you of who you are and the sexual, alluring power you hold. If someone isn’t reacting to you the way you hoped or expected, Scorpio, try another approach.

Love goddess Venus pairs up with sensitive Cancer and your partnership zone on May 7, making you highly aware of how other people feel. Your intuition is strong now, and if you’re in a long-term, committed relationship, you might be able to tap in to your partner’s thoughts. Single Scorpios should go with your gut. Even though someone swears they’re telling you the truth, you know better.

On the twentieth, your co-leader Mars enters domineering, attention-seeking Leo and later that same day opposes shadowy Pluto, bringing out some unattractive, bratty behavior. You might have had special privileges before in certain dating or relationship situations, but right now you don’t. You’ll have to wait your turn just like everyone else.

Sagittarius

Your month is off to a fiery start when asteroid Pallas sizzles in its meetup with dramatic Leo on May 3. With this dangerous partnership underway, things could head in an extreme direction quickly and easily. Your mission is to avoid crashing and burning, Sag!

On the fourth, there’s an uplifting sextile between lusty Venus and your philosophical home planet Jupiter that can bring up strong emotions and take you to exciting new vistas. If you’re with a person you love and trust, sex can be an incredible, take-you-to-the-next-level type of experience. Random hookups can also be fun, but they’re not as life altering.

When fateful Jupiter enters conservative Taurus on May 16, you’ll be thinking about the future from a very logical, common-sense perspective. Archers in long-term relationships, this is the time to think about wills, trusts, mortgages, joint-owned business taxes, and other financial documents that require you to sign on the dotted line.

There’s a big energy shift as powerful Mars moves away from shy Cancer and into confident, charming Leo on the twentieth, and because your adventure zone is targeted with this intense energy, get ready to take more risks and have a lot more fun. Whatever’s happening in your love life, you’re a full participant!

Capricorn

If you’ve been focusing too much on your career, love life, or family responsibilities lately, Capricorn, Ceres moving direct in body-conscious Virgo on May 6 is a wake-up call for you. You’re a much better partner, lover, and friend when you take care of yourself first.

On the twelfth, smart Mercury sextiles your determined home planet Saturn, influencing you to use common sense in your romantic interactions. If you’re single, meeting a potential date or lover through your job is possible, especially if you work long hours together. Goats with partners, this is a good time to go into business together, but make your decisions based on logic rather than emotion.

On May 19, a future-minded Taurus new moon highlights your fifth house of self-expression, so if you can’t envision your current love life bringing you joy in the future, it’s time to speak up. No matter what your situation, you aren’t in it alone, and it never hurts to get advice from someone who loves you.

There’s some stress when the edgy Gemini sun squares your serious leader Saturn in laid-back Pisces on the twenty-eighth, especially if you’re having a hard time getting motivated about a current relationship or starting a new one. Laziness is one of your most detested characteristics, so if you’re feeling it, there must be a reason. Is it possible you just aren’t that into it? 

Aquarius

It’s a big relief when transformational Pluto goes retrograde in your open-minded first house on May 1. The start of this reflective period gives you the chance to really think about what’s happened recently and apply it to what lies ahead. Focus on the lessons you learned when you stepped far outside your comfort zone.

On the seventh, lovestruck Venus makes her move from noncommittal Gemini to caring Cancer, targeting your sixth house of service. Your main goal is to feel useful now, Aquarius, and the Crab’s nurturing touch helps you comfort someone close to you in their time of need. Being there for them when no one else is takes your relationship to a whole new level.

Logic and creativity hold hands during the sun-Uranus meetup in Taurus on May 9, allowing you to solve romantic problems that have been bothering you for quite a while. You’re on the more conservative side of the fence on some issues during this aspect, but, as always, you keep an open mind.

When the egotistical sun enters superficial Gemini on the twenty-first, freedom is on your mind. If you’re single, you’re the classic definition of a free spirit or player, and you don’t see the point of being tied down to just one person. If you’re currently in a relationship, you don’t consider it cheating to flirt with or DM other people. Love doesn’t keep you from doing what you want to do.

Pisces

People talk a good game when commitment-focused asteroid Juno pairs up with conversational Gemini on May 1, but this transit gives off some heavy two-faced vibes. Is someone saying one thing to your face and something entirely different behind your back? Let’s just say that everything isn’t always as it appears now, Pisces.

On the fourth, passionate Venus squares your indecisive home planet Neptune, making it close to impossible for you to make up your mind one way or the other. You know it’s important to set strong emotional boundaries now, but your soft heart makes it difficult not to give in. Watch out for someone who is trying to gaslight you.

You can rely heavily on your intuition during the more positive Mars-Neptune water trine on May 15, and your spirituality helps you connect with someone who can be a powerful influence on your love life. Relating on a metaphysical level is mind-blowing.

The Universe gives you some subtle warnings about procrastinating too much during the sun-Saturn square on the twenty-eighth, but you’re having a really hard time getting motivated. Even though your FOMO is off the charts, you still can’t bring yourself to actually make the first move. Guess you’ll never know what might have happened if you’d popped the question, said “I love you” back, or sent that DM.